During this lunch time, i was browsing around at my friends' blogs to see what has been up with them personally. And to my surprise, i have studied that now more of them are or have been in a state of loneliness. I thought i was the only one who has been suffering from that sickness for all this long, but now i realize i am not the only.
After reading their posts, i must admit that it actually added more sadness on top of my not happy feelings. At times, while walking in shopping malls, or frequently driving on the streets with the music on, i feel like i am the loneliest and the most broken hearted man in the entire world. I mean those songs can easily break your heart and kill your soul. There are times when want to ring my friends up, but something would stop me, maybe they are busy?
I kinda agree with those who say having a bf or gf could be a good solution to this illness. From my friends' statistics, it shows that 3 out of 4 ( Ven, Hour, Rithy, except Tha) of those who don't have a girl friend feel lonely when they are free or they simply need some sort of care from the others. On the other hand, from my own experience and a research study on my frind about his couple life, the finding indicates that rarely he would feel lonely or anything exept when having argument with his girlfriend.
Guys, the singles, i am looking forward to seeing your girl friends very soon. I dont want all of you to experience the suffering from those loneliness. I mean come on, you cant take it very seriously and you never know if it will be a serious one.
7 comments:
Honestly, I don't really buy the idea of loneliness due to no partner. I agree that having partner would be a plus but it's not compulsory. To me, you can do many things to kill that loneliness and it depends on people. Alternatively, we can go for friend if we want. Those who feel loneliness often may feel sth like u - "maybe they are busy so I should not bother". Try to reduce that feeling and u'll feel better. I like the idea of "between friends, there's nth so called bothering" (though I can't really do it myself) :) Cheer up anyway!
PS. I'm also a kind of person who feels lonely frequently.. :)
but when you're busy, those loneliness feelings will not keep haunting you all your second man! and most of the time now is not that lonely for me. i've learnt to live an alone-life lonely! :D it doesn't need to be having gf ban ot lonely! Japanese's life is very lonely!!!
gaara, are u saying because ur name was not included??? :P haha
thy, from ur friend's perspectives but you included ur own name? strange haha!!!
Gaara, i agree with you that we don't necessarily need a gf/bf to avoid our loneliness, friends will just do us good. But there are occasions when friends and gf/bf can't replace each other. I've seen some people who find it harder to live without gf/bf. I mean sometimes you just need somebody who you think will always be there physically and emotionally. Who will never say No to you.
Hour:
Yeah, i forgot to mention myself as well as Davuth in the survey. But 3 out of 4 is good enough to jump to some conclusion. I am happy for you, friend, that you have sort of got rid of your loneliness..but i haven't.
I haven't! The thing is I learnt to be lonely and now i'm lonely with my lonely life! Sometimes it's good isn't it?
I am speechless! I admire Davuth for his optimism and agree with both Thy and turtle.
I don't know but friends can kill your loneliness for only a short period of time. Is it destined that people need romance and love?
Love doesn't last longer, so friendship lasts more longer :P
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